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SEMI Insane

Do we ever do things a “normal” way?

So, y’all recall the challenges we had with getting the Camper back up to the river, right? (you can relive it here). We decided to go an alternate route and find a truck that would pull the camper no problem, but that didn’t cost an arm and a leg. So Austin got the wild hair idea to start looking at Semi Trucks on Facebook Marketplace.

“What do you mean your husband can’t?”

This man surprises me at almost every turn – and I should be used to it by now, but I’m still in awe of him. With some of his previous work experience, he had a CDL. While growing up driving tractors was also a thing in his wheelhouse, a semi was just “another vehicle” in his mind. In my mind, I’m thrown back into the driving course I had to take after my first speeding ticket, sitting next to a truck driver who said out loud… with his whole face… that he’d just SET THE CRUISE CONTROL TO 55MPH AND GET OUT OF HIS SEAT TO BRUSH HIS TEETH ON THE HIGHWAY.

Meanwhile, A just shrugs his shoulders and gets to shopping….

Our time at the river seemed to go by incredibly quickly this year but it was jam packed full of family, river time, and oh yeah… we bought a little Lowe fishing boat too 🙂 (hooray for Facebook marketplace again!)

Because she’s a Lowe, we’ve named her “Expectations” and will be purchasing the name stickers in time for next year’s drop in. Here’s the lookbook of our summer:

Not only did we get quite a bit of fishing in (I caught 2 Walleye this year!) so that makes me 3-1 against Austin and won me a “Walleye Whisperer” t-shirt, we also did quite a bit of traveling.

Locations checked off this Summer for fun

  • Disney Springs/Disneyland (I have a pin problem)
  • Clayton, NY
  • Chittenango, NY – Mitchell Tenpenny Concert
  • Leesburg, VA
  • Mexico
  • Chicago (YAY an O’Hara Baby is due in November!)
  • Niagara Falls/Canada side
  • Toronto, Canada
  • Orlando
  • Miami
  • St. John
  • Curacao

Locations checked off for Work

  • Jamaica
  • Los Angeles
  • Miami
  • Atlantic City
  • Dallas
  • Grenada

This year my role at work has had some updates, I’m still the National Manager of Dive Sales, but I’m also taking on some of the video and event elements. Which means I was a co-host on our Jamaica Independence Day Live event, the content collector during the Travel Advisor Golf Tournament, and of course attending Dive Week!

But back to that semi thing… Austin found a gentleman in Tampa selling a 2012 Volvo 670 with almost a brand new engine in it. He was in FL for work already so he was able to go take a look at it, and for the price – it was checking all the boxes, including the APU unit which allows it to run on a smaller engine instead of keeping the big engine going if you wanted to overnight in it. Now, there are a few loophole ideas that take a bit of work to get this thing “normal person” ready – meaning, registering it as an RV so it’s no longer a commercial vehicle. A found a way to do so by starting his LLC back up (in Montana), registering the Semi as an RV under the LLC, and then us going back and forth to get the correct elements into it to receive the tags/title, etc. It already had 2 bunks, a fridge & inverter, so it just needed a cooking element, and toilet really.

We added a camper toilet, microwave, and coffeemaker. Now the back & forth with the company helping A do the paperwork was annoying, but we finally got the permanent tags (due to the truck’s age) and the title. So all we had to do was fly to Tampa and drive it back to New York… 23 hours.

We took a weekend to do this together and start the adventure. As we made our way from Tampa through Jacksonville, and up I-95 – we stopped for an upgraded mattress for Austin’s bunk (my top bunk is smaller), we fueled up, and made a few stops. First in Leesburg to show the family the new RV, then in MD to see Brother & sister in law, then we overnighted about 15 minutes from Nana in PA. I will have to say, some of these truck stops are NIIIIIICEEE.

They’ve got 24 hour buildings/bathrooms, showers, hot food, and of course the convenience side of things. If it’s a true trucker stop, it’ll also have some of the little things a trucker might need – equipment wise, etc.

We figured out that this thing is easiest to drive at night when theres almost no traffic and you can just set the cruise control. It is a 10-speed manual, so I’m just the passenger princess here. But it’s short lived as I’ll have to drive the Tacoma down to NC while A pulls the camper.

It did take us 2.5 days to get up from FL to NY with our stops & overnights, and we still had to get a hitch installed (because it was originally a 5th wheel puck). I swear, nobody has more confidence in their wife than a blue collar man with no other help. A and I maneuvered that puck from the ground back onto the semi to take it to his friends at a steel company for scrap.

BUUUUT by the time we did get back to the River, the hitch hadn’t arrived yet and we were heading out on vacation! We’ll plan it better next year because, while we had an amazing vacation, we were RUNNING when we got back to get everything packed up and done to head down to NC. We were on our last days and the water at the marina had been shut off (I didn’t fill the freshwater tanks before I left either).

Our first vacation stop was Miami where A would fly in from work and pick me up for a night before our flight to the Caribbean. BUT he was already in Orlando for work so I packed up early, joined a work training in Syracuse and stayed at Hotel Grandma for a night before hopping a flight there. That meant we got a day at Disney Springs Orlando for me to get my Disney Pin fix (and a seafood boil)!

From there, A’s suitcase had a broken zipper so we headed off to TJ Max to find a new one – then we had to ship his old one full of work clothes & his 70lb toolbox back to the river so we weren’t traveling with it for the next 2 weeks.

Our flight Saturday Oct 3rd was out of Miami, we headed that way in the rental car for a night in an airport hotel. The next morning we were off to St. John to meet Mom & Dad and Chris & Becky for some Island Time! The 4 of them had arrived a few days earlier, and it was Uncle Chris’ first opportunity to scuba dive in the ocean! (I took him to sinkholes in FL last year… he won’t let me forget it). So we loaded up our 2 hard case suitcases, our regs box, and our backpacks for the first flight to St. Thomas (St. John doesn’t have an airport).

Upon arrival in St. Thomas, we found our way to a taxi to the marina, then the marina onto a ferry to St. John, and then St. John marina to the Westin where home base would be for the next few nights. It was a lovely 2 bedroom condo and Becky has been to this island many times so she had all the hotspots noted.

We especially loved the Maho Bay Beach and spent most days there snorkeling and enjoying the Vanilla Chilla beverages at the local bar. Each night had a new restaurant for the tasting and we even tried Triggerfish for the first time! YUM.

Our dive excursion took us to Lowkey Watersports right in town and we almost had a private charter! It was the 4 of us divers, our 2 snorkel companions (Mom & Becky) and ONE other dude that booked last minute.

The water was beautiful, clear and warm and we got a turtle sighting! Had we known we could have been lionfish hunting here, we would have pulled our spears out – but USVI have some permit requirements for hunting that we had been researching online.

We thoroughly enjoyed the first vacation stop and weren’t done yet! We hopped a flight back to Miami for a couple nights before heading off to Curacao. But you know we can’t sit still… We did some boat shopping (still on the hunt for our perfect liveaboard) and then in my all-knowing-Google-Machine-Research…. I found out that the Lionfish ZooKeeper company is actually headquartered just north of Miami! So we took a drive up, unannounced, un-appointment-ed… and knocked on the door.

Tim, the Owner, was in for the afternoon and was so welcoming. We told him we were looking to purchase a ZooKeeper for our upcoming trip, and figured we’d come straight to the source vs. waiting for it online or searching through different dive shops. He brought us in, asked us what color we wanted (told us if he didn’t have it he could make it in about 5 minutes) and then ended up GIVING us a brand new Mini in the military partnership green. I had remembered seeing the Sandals Branded one he made for us at DEMA last year, and he mentioned he’d been trying to nail down some conversations with our ops team. I’m setting that up for DEMA Show in November – we’ll see if we can’t get the ball rolling there. Our divers LOVE the conservation aspect of lionfish hunting, and ZooKeeper sponsors SO many events.

After our warehouse tour and chatting with Tim about all his partnerships, sponsorships, and events – we left with a brand new Mini ZooKeeper, a brand new travel size spear, a couple stickers and registration for their Winter Challenge Lionfish competition…. (Guess that means we’ll be taking another dive trip before New Years!)

After collecting all our Amazon packages from the hotels, and waiting hours for other packages that never arrived…. We were packing back up for our next flight to Curacao for A’s Birthday!

We arrived on Oct 10th which is of course Austin’s actual Birthday AND Curacao’s Independence Day! Indulge we did on the Sushi, birthday cake, and evening fireworks! I think besides the scuba diving and constant breeze, the resort bikes were Austin’s favorite part of this resort. He’s been busting me for not taking him to Sandals Curacao since it opened – I’ve been almost once a year since it’s opening for work and we were finally able to get this time booked for him – we also had friends traveling at the same time so it was a win-win!

We got right to work Scuba Diving & Lionfish Hunting. I had emailed & whatsapped the team ahead of our arrival to let them know we were coming, A was finally coming with me, and we were bringing our own lionfish gear. We had pretty full boats each day, and didn’t hear any complaints about the hunting (some guests don’t like to see it/don’t understand that Lionfish are invasive and are killing the reefs). We made out with 7 fish on the first day (and missed about 5 others) which almost filled our Mini, thank goodness they make a packable extender!! We’ll be ordering that ASAP. Austin prepared/cleaned the fish right there on the floating dock when we returned and we brought it to the beachside restaurant to be prepared for supper. Our friends were arriving that day as well so we were able to share with everyone!

That first day of diving had some pretty rough swells, and we decided it was probably due to the hurricane that has just passed through the Gulf. While Curacao is outside of the hurricane belt, that doesn’t stop the connected Caribbean Sea from getting churned up when weather is on this side of the world. We slept in and had breakfast with the crew Monday morning and then did some pool time.

The remainder of the week was spent diving in the mornings, and finding the group after lunch. We also took one afternoon to grab a taxi into downtown Willemstad and wandered around a bit! I finally got my ChiChi too!

As we walked across the floating bridge, the first spot we found was of course a Brewery! We actually spent most of the day there, The Swinging Old Lady. Beers were tasty, snacks were delicious, and they had a breezy outdoor patio for us to enjoy some Country music!

As Curacao’s time came to an end, we weren’t yet finished with vacation – we still had a wedding in Charlotte, NC to get to! The rest of the group was staying another day, but we arrived a day early to accommodate the Friday wedding date and headed back through Miami, then into Charlotte on a late night flight. We hopped an uber to our hotel and got a good night’s rest before the wedding.

Totally normal to walk into a Lowes at 10pm in formal wear… They didn’t have enough of the bolts that we thought we needed for the hitch, so we collapsed into the hotel bed around midnight.

The following morning had us up early and back on a flight to Syracuse. Grandma kindly picked us up and took us back to her house where the Taco has been parked since October 2nd (THANK YOU!).

BUUUUT We still had some stops to make along the way before we could get back to the river; pick up the amazon deliveries, and install the semi’s hitch… yeah, remember that’s still a project to complete before we leave MONDAY.

We also still had to return that second mattress we bought from Costco for the Semi… the one that was too big for my bunk. So a stop at Costco ON A SATURDAY, ARE WE INSANE. yes. Then stops at 3 different Lowes stores to collect (6) 3/4″ Grade 8 bolts. We finally made it back to the river around 5pm, hauled the Lowe out onto her trailer and after a couple snafu’s… Austin finished the hitch install close to midnight.

Up early Sunday morning (for A… I got to stay in bed an extra hour) and we were cleaning/packing/organizing as best as possible for a lunchtime departure….

We found out that the light connections from the semi to the camper were juuuuust a bit too short, so off on a 45 minute trip I went to the Tractor Supply in Governur, NY that had the right part.

At least it was a pretty drive! Upon returning we continued to pack the camper, the semi, and the Taco along with getting the Kayak over to 4 for the winter… sadly the wheels on the kayak carrier got brittle and broke in half. We sat there looking at it for way too long before we both went “it’s a boat…. we’re on a marina… why don’t we just kayak it over to the boat house?!” and so I did… against the wind… in 4.5 minutes. I definitely started that on my Garmin Watch for workout credit – HA!

C&B were up to take their big boat to Keewaydin State Park for haul out and we hooked Lowe Expectations to C’s truck for winter storage at his house. Then it was just us to hook up and haul out… closer to 6pm that evening, so we only went as far as a truck stop in McGraw, NY which was about 2.5 hours from the river, but South of Syracuse traffic for Monday morning.

Monday morning about 6:30am we were on the move again and this was my view for the next 16 hours.

What’s life without a few challenges right? Everything was fine on Sunday evening’s pull – the hitch of the trailer sits a little too high on the semi but Austin can fix that with some upgrades once he gets to a place that has all his tools. We went VERY slowly down the highway and kept to a max speed of 65mph regardless of the posted signs. The hitch carrying our eBikes sparked on a few bumps but until Monday morning everything was smooth. As we hauled onto the I-81 on-ramp in McGraw… I started to smell and see smoke coming from a driver’s side camper wheel. We immediately pulled over and assessed that the rotor on one of the tires was RED hot…. glowing.

*not our actual wheel*

Our fix was…. disconnect the lights. It was daytime so we were very visible but as we crept into the afternoon, we decided our next best option was to figure out which wire controls the electric brakes and “modify” the connector so we have running lights, turn signals, etc. still.

I’ll tell you what…. I have learned SO many things in my 8 years with this man. He found the connector’s diagram, and we modified that thing perfectly. All lit up for the remaining hours to Flat Rock, NC and we were almost HOME!

The RV Park called me as we were still about 5 hours away – I let them know we probably wouldn’t make it there that night, and that we’d see them in the morning. We’re booked into our spot Mid-October 2026 through Mid-May 2027 so our spot is OUR SPOT for the winter. We rolled into the QT parking lot down the road from the RV Park around 10:30 that night and backed everything into a truck spot to go to sleep. The next morning we were up at 7:30a, in the RV Park by 8 and setting up.

About 9 people stopped to talk to us in that first 30 minutes that we were there. We were rushing through the basic setups as I had a hair appointment that’s been booked since April, but we got electric, water, and sewer lines ready to go and the heat on. Gremlin is certainly happy to be home again (he’s not really a car-ride cat).

We then hopped back into the Taco and headed up to Papaw’s house for a little time with him and our pitiful pup Charlie. Austin also decided it was the perfect time to teach me how to shoot a crossbow… he was pleasantly surprised with my aiming skills as I went 4 for 4 shots on target! The final one I actually accidentally managed to put through the first bolt… so we’ll have to replace that one for Papaw. Whoops!

This also means we’re going on my first deer hunting trip this weekend, so OBVIOUSLY I needed super warm camo coveralls. I’m way more excited than I should be about cold-weather clothing. I do be loving my sweats, blankets, electric hand warmers, etc. though.

Austin was off on a 6am flight to Indiana for work Wednesday, and I’m back in office catching up until the first week of November when I head to New Orleans for the big DEMA dive show.

It’s been a rush of a month and we had an amazing vacation, but I think we’ve decided that we need to be SEMI-sane and give ourselves that lead-up time to pack up and be ready to transport. We’re learning each trip what we need/don’t need and how to make the transitions smoother.

Here’s to Blue Mountain Fall/Winter, hikes, hunts, and hot chocolates.

Camper & Updates

We’ve been bunking with mom & dad in VA for the month of October while we awaited Keystone’s driver to pick up our rig. While we did have the space in A. Bay until October 13th, we had a wedding in Lancaster, PA I had a work trip, and then our Jamaican Vacation was scheduled so it was time to pack it up (yet again) and make the moves down south.

The wedding in Lancaster was a hit! And we had been able to repack (for the umpteenth time) the camper into those black & yellow Lowe’s bins that we’ve come to love so much… With items at Mom & Dads, In condo 4 at A. Bay, and leaving one of the trucks parked at Grandma’s house in Syracuse we just about emptied the entire unit!

September 26th Austin flew back into Syracuse and rented a car. We headed to Grandma’s house (I had breakfast with her that morning!) to pull all the stuff out of the Tacoma in her driveway, reload into the rental and start the 6+ hour drive to VA. I had the F-350 loaded down bed to roof with all the last bits & pieces and we caravaned down 81. We passed quite a few accidents on the way down, but came through unscathed.

The driver was supposed to pick up the camper the week of Sept 29th. We waited, and waited, and waited for the driver to let us know he was on his way/there to pick up the camper – and he finally showed up Oct 3rd. Apparently he tried a few excuses with Austin to say he wasn’t sure he could pull it because of a “toolbox in the bed of his truck” and “he couldn’t find the camper” (it’s kind of hard to miss…) and Austin set him very straight. So the camper was picked up and driven the 12 hours across NY and into Indiana where we waited for more updates.

We have no idea what the camper looked like once it made it to Keystone – they didn’t send any photos but we did get an update (finally) while in Jamaica that it had arrived and they were doing their own inspection of all the elements as they don’t rely on Camping World’s reports.

We were hoping to have the camper back by November as we have a space reserved in Hendersonville, NC Nov 7- mid May…. but that was obviously wishful thinking. We are glad they are doing their own full blown inspection and not relying on Camping World, they’ve already noted that they’re replacing pretty much the entire fiberglass exterior sheeting, interior wallpapering/walls that were cracking, the front entertainment center cabinetry, and a new back ladder (apparently it’s bent?!), and they’re adding flex adapters to the front area that will actually allow the unit to flex as it should when on the hitch. We’re hoping we get the update that they’ll be re-welding all the connections that we saw were broken as well once they get that front cap off again for those flex pieces… It sounds to us like there have been MANY issues like ours with this particular model and they’ve had to fix more campers than expected which is why we have not paid a penny out of pocket for fixes past 2 new tires. When it’s all complete which sounds like another 6-ish weeks…. (3-4 weeks before they get it IN to the production line, and another 2 weeks working on it) they’ll then tow it down to Hendersonville’s Camping World for us where we’ll pick it up.

After the Pennsylvania Wedding, I had a trip up to Ohio to cover some events for work where I presented and met with new advisors and got more interest for diving at the resorts! Because it was just a 2 nighter, I packed myself in my backpack and caught a quick flight from Dulles.

It’s been great to be around close family – as it allows us to get to the nibling’s sports games and take advantage still of walking into town for experiences. We celebrated our house sale & the money being deposited – which we then turned around and wiped out some debts, and invested with our financial advisor! We also finally decided on an eBike and it arrived for Dad and I to put together!

Mom also called Dad and I to jump into some Pickleball at the local gym they’re members of as they needed a few extra players. It’s only my 2nd time actually playing games and I’ve got to get my swings under control – I tend to hit it long A LOT. BUT I’m running my butt off getting to stuff and burning ALL the calories haha!

It was just about Jamaica time!! So we packed our suitcase (and Austin’s backpack – because he’s weird) for a 6-night stay at Sandals Negril with friends! It was Austin’s & our friend Sandy’s birthdays, what better way to celebrate!

We were immediately spoiled on arrival in Jamaica – the resort team (who I emailed ahead of time and told them we were coming) put us in a beautiful butler villa (without the butler service) that had it’s own backyard and pool!! We figured out in Antigua back in 2020 that we are definitely room pool people, Austin gets uncomfortable just sitting on the beach in the heat and either has to have something fun to do, or be in the water.

I, on the other hand, am perfectly fine with a book and a beach chair soaking up all the sun…. I finished that book on the 2nd afternoon and had to steal Austin’s book for the next 3 afternoons. Thanks Babe!

We also got some diving in!! I finally talked Austin in to completing his Invasive Species Tracker Certification which “legally” allows him to hunt lionfish!

He’s a natural and got about 5 on the follow up dives we did! We also got to do a super cool dive called the Throne Room where you descend through a crack in the coral formation and come out in a opened coral cavern.

Hangry Austin – Happy Austin!

We had a fabulous time on a worry free vacation in beautiful Jamaica. Did some professional resort photos (our first since our wedding), and I even got to practice my bubble rings on dives 🙂

We had planned to fly back into Syracuse for Punkin Chukin weekend in Clayton, NY but plans changed and we swapped our flights to fly into Charlotte to spend time with Austin’s family instead. It was fun to watch him & his brothers run around like kids again, especially when they caught glimpse of a black bear running across the ridge! (its black bear hunting season and they all SPRINTED off to try to get it).

After stopping by the Tennessee storage unit and seeing if we could cut the locks off (we couldn’t), we headed over to see Mamaw & Papaw and of course Charlie. He’s a happy pup there and has gained probably 15lbs with Mamaw’s cooking.

A 6.5 hour drive from Marshall, NC back to Leesburg had us arriving back at our current home base just around 11pm. Austin was headed out on a flight to Canada for the week Monday and I was back in office to follow up on all the vacay emails that came in. Plus prep for DEMA Show which is the largest trade dive show of the year! This year it’s in Orlando and is only a few weeks away!

Mom & Dad arrived back home from Punkin Chukin to a full house – Meg & the Niblings were riding bikes and it was the perfect fall day to kick the training wheels off Knox’s bike and get him riding like the big kids. He was a little nervous to start but had a whole fan club cheering him on and he GOT IT!

I’m super grateful to be here for moments and memories like these. He was so excited to be a full blown bike rider that we all took our first big family bike ride up to the park across the street!

It’s been a trying year for me and Austin – but we are so lucky to have family support everywhere that is open to helping us. We’ve had so many good moments among the craziness and I wouldn’t want to trade any of them.

One final happy update for me – I finally applied for my Master Scuba Diver Certification with PADI! While this isn’t necessarily a “certification” in the same sense as most – it does have a few requirements:

  1. Complete your Rescue Diver Certification
  2. Complete 50 Dives
  3. Complete 5 Specialties
  4. Submit application with all those elements & receive a new card!

So I did!

  1. Rescue Diver Certification completed 2022
  2. 214 Recorded dives to date
  3. Specialties Completed: Deep Diver, Peak Performance Buoyancy, Emergency Oxygen Provider, Digital Underwater Photographer, Boat Diver, Enriched Air Diver, Full Face Mask, Invasive Species Tracker

On to the next adventures!!

Prime Day!

Get out ya wallets! It’s PRIME DAY!

Some of my absolute favorite items are on a deal this Tuesday & Wednesday – July 16-17 so grab ’em while they’re still here!

Krispy Kreme K-Cups for your Kuerig – 5% off so you’re ready to cruise the rest of these items

Goody’s Powder – for your hubby when all the boxes start showing up, he’s gonna have a headache, backache, etc. from lugging all your new stuff inside.

I absolutely LOVE this 3-light level lamp, It was super easy to put together – just plug and go! It’s adjustable so if you’re crafting, creating, etc. – it’s an awesome option and it’s 70% off for Prime Day! ($20.98). I put this desk together all by myself too! (insert proud emoji) It came with all the tools necessary; screws, wrench, etc. and has a built in plug on the desk face for easier access. Just make sure you put it in front of your wall plug and plug it in! And if you need some super light & fun earrings like you see in the photo – Check out my Etsy Shop (MelMaid)!

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This Long Line Sports Bra is SO comfortable weather you’re actually working out, or didn’t really want to put on a full bra & shirt. I’ve worn this with so many different outfits and it’s lightly padded already.

I have these pants in both black AND pink. They are a heavier quality fabric, but I get SO many compliments every time I wear them. They have an awesome side “cargo” pocket in addition to ACTUAL hip pockets, but are still formal enough to wear to the office. They’re $31.99 (30% off) I’ve also thrown this belt on with them for the perfect little detail $11.91 (20% off)

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Ring Floodlight Cam with Motion Sensing – $119 (40% off)

Ring Video Doorbell – $149.99 (35% off)

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Carpe Vita <3

It seems like 2023 is our year to break out of our regular and comfortable travel experiences. Not only were we able to visit the beautiful Country of Africa (South Africa; Johannesburg, Cape Town, Franschhoek, and Hoedspruit – Thanks Live Life Safaris!) but we ALSO just returned from an amazing Maldives Liveaboard with Mujavaz Scuba & Travel!

We are absolutely Seizing LIFE this year.

I’ll have to do a separate post about Africa as this would take you probably an hour to read if I pushed both in here.

Let’s talk about the Maldives for a hot minute – The first image that I’m betting pops into your head are Over Water Bungalows. You know… the $5000.00/day stay that just drips in the luxury of crystal blue waters and your own pool off your deck over the ocean. Spoiler Alert – you don’t have to fly 16+ hours to get all that (selfless plug – Sandals Resorts has those with direct flights and you get every restaurant, beverage, transfers, butlers, room service, the WHOLE kit & caboodle for the same price or less!) – Did you know you still have to pay for meals in a bunglaow in the Maldives? Also, fun fact – most of the time, the island the resorts are on are OWNED by the Resort!

Buuuuttttt…. This was NOT that trip.

THIS trip, is what is called a Liveaboard. That means we join about 18 other people on a 124 ft luxury yacht. I hope you’re now imagining a Below Deck type of montage.

Because that’s EXACTLY how it felt!

While my husband and I arrived a few days earlier than some of the group – we had 2 nights to enjoy on our host & friend’s home island of Guraidhoo. That meant we arrived at Velana International Airport in the capital island of Male, and planned to catch a ferry for $30pp which should have taken about 30 minutes by boat.

Unfortunately, because our flight arrived at 3:27p and we still had to make our way through immigration, baggage claim, and customs – the last ferry to Guraidhoo departed at 4pm. Luckily Mujey met us at the airport and coordinated an alternate ferry to Maafushi Island for the same price, and because he knows EVERYBODY, had a cousin pick us up in a speedboat to head home for the next 2 nights.

My husband and I absolutely LOVED Guraidhoo. It’s a small island with sandy streets and 2 automobiles…. Ambulances actually. The rest of the vehicles are electric scooters and bikes so there’s really no noise pollution or gas smell. Most people walk everywhere and we got so comfortable walking around we actually ended up doing it barefoot a few times (because of rain puddles).

Since our arrival evening transfers took a bit longer than expected thanks to a boat motor moving a little slower than usual, we headed straight to our hotel and crashed.

A 12 hour flight from JFK-DOHA, a layover, and then a 4 hour flight DOHA-Male is a long day with a 9 hour ahead time difference. Our travel also included a 6 hour drive from Charlotte, NC to Northern Virginia to drop the dog off with my sister, and an evening flight from DCA-JFK to overnight ahead of our jump across the pond. Totaling 4 actual days of travel – and that’s just to get there, we still had to come back after 10 days. That might belong in this trip’s liveaboard “cons” list if we’re comparing it to travel from the East Coast to the Caribbean.

Check these faces after 20 + hours of travel

It had been over 12 months since my husband’s last dive (I know, I’m the worst, I haven’t taken him on resort… but in my defense… he used most of his vacation for our honeymoon in May). So we joined the next morning’s dive through the local dive shop on Guraidhoo and met some of our future liveaboard passengers as well!

I did try my full face OceanReef mask on this dive – but I’m still not as comfortable as I’d like to be with it and equalizing, especially not on a deep dive so I swapped to my regular mask and backup for the rest of the dives.

Important things we needed to know ahead of arrival in a new country were the island restrictions, expectations, and rules. Because the Maldives are an Islamic country I wanted to ensure I was respectful of their cultures and traditions which affected what kind of clothing I packed and meant we got used to hearing the call to prayer 5 times a day (our hotel was also right behind the mosque). That also meant I had to do a little shopping as my knees were uncovered in my dresses, and I made sure I wore t-shirts to keep my shoulders covered.

Our hotel for the first 2 nights was called Rosy Villa; a quaint guest house hotel with stairs only to all the rooms, no bikinis in the common areas, a continental breakfast for divers included, and a short walk from the dive shop.

Our host ensured we had a memorable time on his home island and that included a special supper for us and our liveaboard buddies followed by an authentic Maldivian drum and dance performance. It was certainly a core memory created! I also did a little *more* local shopping and picked up a beautiful whale shark pendant, positive manifestation that we might actually see a real one on this trip!

Our liveaboard experience was finally here! Our group packed up and boarded the private boat transfer back to Male to meet the rest of our 19 person group that we’d be living with for the next 10 days. (tack on another $30pp for that transfer)

We were sad to leave our new friends at Manta Divers but excited to see what else the rest of this archipelago of 26 natural atolls had in store for us.

Our “transfer” to the liveaboard was actually the boat we’d be diving off of the rest of our trip. A Dhoney? Dohny? Doney? I never did figure out how to spell it…. About a 200 sq. ft. boat space loaded up with our luggage. The boat included the modern amenities expected for a dive trip and compressors on board (air & nitrox) for easy tank fills along the way.

With all the divers accounted for – we headed out and around the airport into the harbor to meet Carpe Vita and her crew. For this trip, Mujavaz Scuba & Travel had booked space for 14 divers, 2 divers came from the UK and booked on their own, and another 3 came from Germany booking on their own. We all got along well though! With that many people there is sure to be some scuffles – but for the most part I thought we all got along well, language barriers and all.

We were greeted by Captain “Adam”, and the boat crew and then escorted to the main salon lounge for medical questionnaire paperwork, liability waivers, showing our certification cards, and confirming our last logged dive dates. We were also introduced to our dive guide team and had a brief boat orientation to explain what to expect on this trip.

Our schedule for the next 10 days would include:

6am wake up knock on our door

6:30am Dive Briefing in the salon & head to the dive boat

6:45a(ish)-8:30(ish) Morning Dive 1

8:30(ish) Breakfast – indicated by a ringing bell

10:30a Dive Briefing #2 & head to dive boat (bell)

10:45a-12:30p Morning Dive 2

12:45p Lunch bell

3pm Dive Briefing #3 & head to dive boat (bell)

3:15p-5p(ish) Dive #3

7p Dinner Bell

This would be the schedule or variation of such depending on sail time to each of the atolls and dive sites we had planned, We also had 2 night dives for this trip, one was a Manta dive where we knelt on the sea floor just behind the boat, and the other was a night shark dive (again kneeling). You got used to hearing that bell ringing and even now that the trip is over, my ears are still ringing! You could choose to skip dives as well and sleep in or hang out on the boat. But we kept a pretty strict schedule!

This liveaboard included 10 staterooms that could be configured for 1-3 guests per room dependent on the need. Our group had a few single divers which meant they were partnered up as roommates to share a room and bathroom, unless they chose to pay the single supplement for their own room. For this sail, the boat had 19 guests on board with ages ranging from early 30s to late 70s.

My husband and I are spoiled and were booked into one of the VIP suites on the top deck, but that also meant any ocean swells were felt harder by us than the staterooms on the lower levels.

There was a chef on board to create all our buffet meals (differing menus each night), room staff for cleaning & turndown service, and all our dive gear remained on the dive boat the entire time. I really loved the convenience of the crates we had for our dive gear – nothing special, just large plastic milk crates. If you brought your own gear, it was delivered to the dive boat/ if you rented from the liveaboard they would help you get it onto the dive boat. Then you selected your tank and set up your gear one time, this became your “spot” on the dive boat for the rest of the trip. Your BCD remained on that tank for the entirety of the trip, and the rest of your gear (fins, mask, booties, etc.) was in your crate under the bench seating. You could choose to leave your wetsuit hanging on the boat as well! But, you know me and my favorite dive brand suits…. I packed 6 different dive-outfits for this trip. (Hey Spacefish Army ❤ )

Keep in mind – because you’re on a yacht, your dining is all at the same table with the same group of people for the next 10 days. The food I will say, was delicious. We enjoyed everything from fresh pastries, to custom omelets, to juicy tuna steaks, and fresh sashimi… And everything in between! Thankfully we all had the same mindset for meals – nobody kept the same seat, we all kept rotating and connecting with each other.

With all our dive gear remaining on the dive boat, that meant the only thing you needed to carry with you each dive would be your camera equipment, water bottle (reusable, and provided by the boat), and your towel (also provided by the boat). There were also fresh water rinse tanks for cameras and dive computers, along with fresh water shower sprayers (3) to rinse after the dives. The boat and dive team also helped you get between those boats via ladder and handing your stuff back and forth. Thankfully nobody dropped anything into the abyss while crossing over!

For the down time between meals and dives, you were on your own for entertainment. Most of the time for me, that meant reading or napping on the top sundeck if the weather was nice, or clinging to the bed and hoping I wasn’t going to be thrown off of it attempting to nap on the first day of sailing.

We had some rough weather that first 8 hour sail day. A lot of our boatmates really felt the motion of the ocean – and not in the good way. Thankfully we got it out of the way at the beginning of our trip. I had visited my doctor ahead of travel for prescription seasickness medication which helped, plus all the over the counter options and ginger chews…. I read a ton of prep articles for this liveaboard and asked our PADI team for advice of what was a definite need on board. I have control issues!

Packing List at the end!

The amazing thing about a liveaboard is it’s convenience and accessibility to dive sites you may not get from a resort experience.

Because you’re already on a ship in the middle of the ocean, you have the opportunity of visiting sites that are less accessible to resort divers because of the sailing time. Most of our sailing time on the dive boat was 10 minutes or less to the dive site from our liveaboard. That meant more time in the water, less travel time.

This also means you have the opportunity to see different sea life than you might from a resort because not all sea life hangs out on the reef directly next to your resort – especially if the resort island doesn’t have their own “house reef”.

I absolutely loved the way every Dive Briefing was thoroughly detailed of that dive sites plan. You learned the name, the history of the site, what kid of dive it would be (most were drift dives for us – meaning the boat dropped us off in one spot, and picked us up in another), what you could expect to see and where we would start based on the current at the site and maximum depths. You then were told which group was going first (A, B, C) and onto the dive boat you loaded. (Your group was assigned on day 1 and you remained with them the entire time)

Hi Mujey!

I also loved that the dive team on the boat would check the current at each site and give you that information before you were fully suited up – that meant if there was stronger/weaker current, you could choose to adjust your weights and they’d tell you which shoulder to keep to the reef so you were headed the right way. We of course stayed as a group which is how I like to do my dives – I’m still not as confident in reading a compass as I should be – but hey, every day is a school day!

I will say our last dive day we all just had to laugh when the dive guide came up and said “slight to medium current” and when we got down there it was all we could do to kick in one direction to stay in the same spot. We all just ended up making sure our buoyancy was correct and that we didn’t kick any coral as we were pushed the length of the wall. If you wanted to stop – you’d better be sure you had your reef hook ready and had a spot picked out! It was a lot of “look at that! …. there it gooooooooes!”

One of the experiences that took me a minute to wrap my head around was that if one diver was low on air, they’d indicate it to the dive leader (as normal) and the dive leader would pair them with their buddy or take them up to end that divers dive – but the rest of the group would remain on the dive and just be adopted by another group. I guess that’s another plus of the separate dive boat! The captain knows where the divers should end (and he’s watching bubbles) so they can jump to each group for pickups. This happened while my husband was still using a small tank, we upgraded him to a larger tank after day 2 ;). It had been a while since I’d deployed a DSMB so the dive instructor did it for me the first time, and I was able to deploy it the 2nd time. The fact that the dives didn’t end when a diver hit 1000PSI was also a change from my regular resort experiences. Low on air was considered 700PSI for this trip – and we were all on Nitrox. That meant most dives were pushing 1 hour bottom time!

Even though were were on a ship, there were still a few surprises for this trip. The first was that one of the couples (and our new friends) attending with us had planned to partake in a symbolic wedding on one of the islands we stopped on during our beach barbeque! It was beautiful as was the bride!

I was honored to be asked by the Groom to take their phones and document/record the night. It was a huge surprise to the rest of our group on the liveaboard and such an awesome experience to see how the boat team could pull together a beautiful wedding with mostly natural resources. Everything except the tables and chairs it seemed were pulled directly from the island. The team even made the bride a bouquet and flower crown, and they designed a beautiful sand sculpture.

It was also my husband’s birthday during this trip, and there is no way I’ll be able to top this year’s experience. Not only was he treated to TWO happy birthday songs (once on the morning dive, and again at dinner), but an amazing Birthday Cake created by the on board chef AND a night MANTA dive! I seriously encourage you to click that link to watch the YouTube video – it was an INCREDIBLE experience with these majestic, enormous creatures. Luckily this was the SECOND time I got to see them as we also did a Manta Snorkel in the Marine Sanctuary one day but my husband decided that because he sinks like a rock – he wouldn’t have much fun struggling to snorkel at the same time.

The team seriously goes above and beyond to make every divers experience one for the memory books. My husband LOVES to fish, and he was able to get some fishing in with the Captain one morning (he skipped a dive), and another bout of Maldivian style fishing off the back of the boat – until the Dolphin showed up!

manta snorkel!

We logged 27 dives over 10 days along with that separate Manta Snorkel experience and opportunities to jump off the back of the liveaboard to snorkel with the Whale Sharks, Manta Rays, and Nurse Sharks that joined us some evenings.

For our return back to Male – we had a late night/early morning flight – however you look at it. Our sail ended around 8am on October 14th, but our flight didn’t take off until 1am October 15th, so we had almost a whole day to fill in Male.

We were able to get into a guest house hotel in Male near the airport with 3 of the other divers for the day – meaning we could store our luggage in a locked room and have access to a shower!

Our amazing host friends did not stop the experience when the boat trip ended – they escorted us all around the capital city to see the President’s Marina, beautiful parks, Mosque’s, the oldest cemetery, the fish market & farmers market, and a man-made beach!

We also were treated to some of the best home made gelato I’ve ever tasted, at the Seagull Cafe. This happens to be a favorite spot of our hosts – so we all enjoyed some delicious food and sweets.

the King Pineapple – half a pineapple, gelato & fruit!
the Maldivian Surprise – half a coconut, 3 scoops gelato + fruit. Once you finish the inside – they cut up the coconut for you!

This was lunch for us – I also had a side of sweet potato fries to share with the table. WE ARE ADULTS!

It was an incredible trip and we made the long trek back home safely. We are eternally grateful to our friends at Mujavaz Scuba & Travel for pushing us to come on this trip with them – we can’t wait to travel with them again!

Packing List with Amazon Affiliate Links for easy shopping! (I may receive a commission from these items)

First Aid Kit

  • Azo (UTI)
  • Monistat (UTI)
  • zzzQuil (thought we’d use it on the plane)
  • Cortisone
  • Neosporin
  • Immodium
  • Goody’s (used REGULARLY in this house)
  • Alka-seltzer PLUS
  • bonine (motion sickness)
  • Emetrol (motion sickness)
  • sinex nasal spray
  • Dramamine Nausea Ginger Chews
  • Ace Bandages
  • Tattoo Waterproof Bandages (these stay on better than the small Band-Aids, and can be cut to size!)

Concrete Jungle Where Families Come Together

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Canada, eh?

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Where is My Voice?!

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Better A Silly Girl with a Flower…

Than a silly boy with a horse and a stick… Tournament of Roses time! Continue reading Better A Silly Girl with a Flower… →

107,113 Steps

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